the Loser is always part of the problem.
the Loser always has an excuse.
The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";
the Loser says, "That's not my job."
the Loser sees a problem for every answer.
The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible"; the Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."
When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";
when a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."
A Winner makes commitments;
a Loser makes promises.
Winners have dreams;
losers have schemes.
Winners say, "I must do something";
losers say, "Something must be done."
Winners are a part of the team;
losers are apart from the team.
Winners see possibilities;
losers see problems.
Winners believe in win/win;
losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
Winners see the potential;
losers see the past.
Winners are like a thermostat;
losers are like thermometer.
Winners choose what they say;
losers say what they choose.
Winners use hard arguments, but soft words;
losers use soft arguments, but hard words;
Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.
Winners follow the philosophy of empathy:"Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you";
losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."
Winners make it happen; losers let it happen.
See luuletus potsatas mõni hetk tagasi minu mailbox´i ja kuna see on järjekordselt üks õige asi õigel ajal, siis leiab ta koha ka siin.
Minu jaoks on need kaotaja ja võitja, keda selles luuletuses kirjeldatakse, mõlemad osa ühest inimesest, osa minust endast ning mõlemad võitlevad, et ellu jääda.
Kord on kaotaja peal, siis jälle võitja - üks elu peamisi ülesandeid ongi vist see, kuidas nende kahe äärmuse vahel tasakaal säilitada ning elus edasi liikuda.
kui juba lugejadki olemas :)
Tänu teie toetavatele sõnadele ja saadetud headele mõtetele saab lõpptulemus kindlasti oluliselt parem ! Aitähh
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